People are mean

One day I will understand why people think it's ok to tell me negative things about myself...but the second you do it to them it's World War III. I swear to God, I realize bad things about myself all the fucking time...and I truthfully do NOT need people to point out menial problems that do NOT contribute to some higher good be it for myself or others. Thank you for adhering to this policy. I have a mother that tells me I'm fat, don't go to church enough, and am horrible with money. I honestly don't need anyone elses opinion on the matter unless I ask. Thanks.